Friday, September 9, 2011

Are YOU attracted to YOU - How Lingerie Can Lead to Self Love

A lot of women see lingerie as a means to an end: sex.

We all know that buying sassy lingerie can help spice-up your love-life. However, what about wearing lingerie to enhance your relationship with yourself? Eh?

Have you thought about how you treat yourself? What message are you sending yourself with your lingerie? Even if you are currently single--or not wanting to attract anyone at the moment--that's okay! How about attracting you to, ahem, yourself?

I am not talking about turning yourself on--I mean how do you feel when you put on your underwear in the morning? Inspired? Dreading the day? Numb? Excited about what the day will bring?

Consider paying a little more attention to yourself. Maybe lingerie isn't typically your thing, but just experiment for a week: pick out your lingerie in the morning as carefully as you pick out your clothes. Whether they match or not, wear something that suits your mood. Just have a positive intention about your body, femininity, and your underwear! That self care will turn in to confidence.

Confidence = sexy.

If you have any inspired stories about lingerie, please leave one below in the comment section!

xoxo Jen


  1. It is funny that I just read this post considering I wore some sexy lingerie for myself last night. I cooked dinner, baked cookies, and watched a movie by myself in lingerie and heels. It was great! I think ladies need to remember that it incredibly healthy to have lovely dates just with me, myself, and I. Just taking some time to enjoy your own company and simply taking care of yourself. I completely agree that it is a confidence booster and it recharges your batteries for the tasks to come. Love yourselves ladies!

  2. I LOVE that! What a fabulous night of self-love:) Thanks for sharing, Leah Clare!


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