Lingerie Fashion Show

If any of you have ever wondered what it is like to attend a lingerie fashion show in NY, here is a little taste for you!

PS My husband is brainwashed-- he actually commented that he couldn't believe he was actually looking at the lingerie (instead of the girls:)

xo
Jen

NEW Harlequin & Cleo Bras at Bellefleur!

 

Available in cup sizes D and above. Price start at $54!

Are YOU attracted to YOU - How Lingerie Can Lead to Self Love

A lot of women see lingerie as a means to an end: sex.

We all know that buying sassy lingerie can help spice-up your love-life. However, what about wearing lingerie to enhance your relationship with yourself? Eh?

Have you thought about how you treat yourself? What message are you sending yourself with your lingerie? Even if you are currently single--or not wanting to attract anyone at the moment--that's okay! How about attracting you to, ahem, yourself?

I am not talking about turning yourself on--I mean how do you feel when you put on your underwear in the morning? Inspired? Dreading the day? Numb? Excited about what the day will bring?

 Consider paying a little more attention to yourself. Maybe lingerie isn't typically your thing, but just experiment for a week: pick out your lingerie in the morning as carefully as you pick out your clothes. Whether they match or not, wear something that suits your mood. Just have a positive intention about your body, femininity, and your underwear! That self care will turn in to confidence.

Confidence = sexy.

If you have any inspired stories about lingerie, please leave one below in the comment section!


xoxo Jen

Lingerie Therapy at Bellefleur Lingerie

Want to know what it's like to work with Jen at Bellefleur Lingerie? Well, here you go. This video will eventually be posted on our website, but I couldn't wait! Here's a little something I like to call--Lingerie Therapy. Enjoy!

Simone Perele Estrella Set = Wow!

The fall 2011 collections have officially begun to arrive at Bellefleur. While I don't feel quite finished with summer yet, I can tell you that this is my absolute favorite time of year for lingerie. The fall and winter collections are exquisite. The designers bring their "A-game" this season, because men and women alike tend to buy the most detailed, lacy and delicate numbers when the weather turns chilly. I think it is because we can hide whatever we want under our 3 layers of clothing here in the Pacific Northwest. I am looking forward to ditching my practical summer bras for something lacy and impractical. Gimme.
Simone Perele Estrella bra: $110
Shorty: $65
Thong (not pictured): $50

Braless Wonders

I was recently interviewed for Women's Health Magazine about the practicalities of going braless. My first response was don't do it! Believe me, if you go sans bra long enough, your breast can resemble funnel-cakes (and not the tasty kind that someone will stand in line for). We have all seen National Geographic! In other cultures, women do not wear bras. And indeed, their breasts show the wear-and-tear from years of freedom.

Of course you can occasionally go without underwire support. Even I enjoy my summer days with a skimpy top and no bra (thank you petite breasts). But there are rules, people! Okay, maybe there aren't really rules, but there should be. 

Going braless is a choice we all confront at some point in our lives. Be it that new low-back dress we are dying to wear, or that plunging neckline that nothing can hide under, fashion often dictates a bra work-around. So, here are some solutions for going bra-free:

1. Wear a soft, lace bra without underwires: Often called a bralet, these pieces mimic a half-camisole and will add style to any flowy, summer dress rather than detract from it. Some bralets and bandeau styles (with no straps) are actually supportive through a D cup.
2. Nipple covers/pasties: Available in simple, nude silicone and in bright, colorful shapes, you can have fun with this accessory. Pasties work best when you are wearing something fitted on top that provides a little support, but you just  don't want to nip-out through your top. I love Nippies for their colorful, fun, heart-shaped nipple covers. Perfect for a date night or event where you may have a wardrobe malfunction. You can spot Rhianna (pictured) and other celebs flashing their Nippies on purpose.
3. Tape 'em up!: There is special pre-shaped tape that you can buy to stick the girls up! There is a wide variety of stick on bras available. I like Sexy In Seconds strapless support pads (pictured above) because they are individual "pads" that adhere to each breast. The u-shape holds up each breast and can also create a bit of cleavage. These work through a C cup.
4. If you are a small A/B cup- you have my blessing to go braless!
5. If you are over a D cup, please, please, I beg of you, wear a strapless bra that FITS properly. I have seen so many beautiful, busty ladies this summer wearing a strapless bra that is too small for them. This causes the breasts to bulge out the sides, top, and sometimes bottom of the bra. It ruins the entire outfit. Embrace your girls and buy a strapless bra in the right size- and you will  look dynamite! Le Mystere makes phenomenal strapless bras that actually hold you  up. If you want to truly go without a bra, look for halter style dresses with thicker fabric and a secure tie behind your neck. JCrew makes some fabulous halter dresses that are sexy and supportive.

What do you think about going braless? Share your thoughts below!

xoxo
Jen

Love Circus by Aubade

Aubade has outdone themselves this time. The new Love Circus is so beautiful, I can't stop staring at it! The embroidered floral print bra has elements of polka dots and lurex running through it. The deep blues and purples will flatter any skin tone, while the beautiful demi cup rounds the breast to perfection. This collection is pure art!

In stock now at Bellefleur. Bra $129 Thong $75 Short $109