Tip 10 of 20 Intention Invention

Fantasize about something you want and don't have in your life right now. A new car, a man, a mentor, whatever. Think about exactly what you want in your life. Write it down and put it somewhere you will see it every day.

Tip 9 of 20 Clean your Drawers

Let's clean out your underwear drawer! Don't pretend that you aren't alarmed by what lives in there. Underwear you would rather die in than be resuscitated wearing.

Step 1: Empty your panty drawer on to your bed or floor.
Step 2: Make two piles: 1-those with stains or holes, 2-the rest.
Step 3: Throw away pile 1! You need not be tempted to ever reach for those panties, again!
Step 4: Replenish your underwear drawer by treating yourself to some new, pristine panties from your favorite shop or brand.
(ahem, Bellefleur perhaps?)

Your welcome!

Tip 8 of 20 Today is the Greatest

Have you ever heard the phrase "Our Greatest Gift is the Present"? Well, I am giving you permission to have amnesia today. Take a day off from the past. The good, the bad, the ugly, it has little to do with what you can make happen today.

If you woke up and didn't know who you were, who would you be? --Jenism

Tip 7 of 20 Game Over!

Unless you are planning on playing a sport, you should not be wearing a sports bra! They do nothing but restrict the movement of your breasts, pressing them in to a boob omelet--not a tasty look!

If you can't stand underwire in your bra, opt for a supportive soft bra sans wire. Game on!

Tip 6 of 20 Yes WoMan

I recently heard Joan London speak (cool woman!), and she touted the attitude of "yes". If she hadn't said yes to the fortuitous offer of being a weather girl, she wouldn't have been on television, nor a beloved, household name.

So, say YES! If anyone offers you anything today, say yes. No matter what.

Refill of coffee? Yes, please.

Spare a quarter? Why not.

Can I take you to dinner Saturday night? Sure!

Take a job in Paris? Oui!

Tip 5 of 20 Knicker know-how

Find the raciest panties (read: hot & sexy!) in your panty drawer and wear them today! Don't save them for a rainy day!

Although, considering we are in Seattle, it probably is a rainy day!

Tip 4 of 20 Make out!

Make out with someone today!
I am not talking about a peck, or quick kiss.
If no one is available, fantasize about your best kiss ever--the kind that makes your body tingle just thinking about it. Enjoy the serotonin!